Lesson

Prefer and would rather

Preference expressions

≈ 15 min 8 block(s)

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Prefer and would rather

These expressions are used to talk about preferences. 'Prefer' can describe general likes and choices. 'Would rather' (and 'would prefer') express specific preferences, often for a particular moment or option. Pay attention to the verb forms that follow each expression.

  • 'Prefer' + noun / 'prefer' + -ing: for general preferences (I prefer tea to coffee; I prefer working from home).
  • 'Prefer' + to + infinitive: also possible to state a general preference (I prefer to arrive early).
  • 'Would rather' + bare infinitive: for present/future personal preference (I would rather wait).
  • 'Would rather' + past simple: for a preference about someone else's action (I'd rather you came earlier).
  • 'Would rather' + have + past participle: to express a past regret or preference (I'd rather you had told me).

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Structures and examples

Structure Use Example
prefer + noun State a general preference between things I prefer coffee to tea.
prefer + -ing General preference for actions I prefer working from home.
prefer + to + infinitive General or repeated preference (often stylistic) I prefer to arrive early.
prefer X to Y Compare two choices I prefer reading to watching TV.
would prefer + to + infinitive Polite/specific preference I would prefer to meet on Wednesday.
would rather + bare infinitive Present/future preference for yourself I'd rather wait until tomorrow.
would rather + past simple Preference about someone else's action (present) I'd rather you came earlier.
would rather + have + past participle Regret or preference about the past I'd rather you had told me sooner.

Tip

Key rule: Match the verb form to the structure

Choose the correct verb form depending on the expression:

  • After 'prefer' you can use a noun, the -ing form, or 'to' + infinitive.
  • Use 'prefer X to Y' when comparing two options (X and Y can be nouns or -ing forms).
  • Use 'would rather' + bare infinitive for your own present/future preference.
  • Use 'would rather' + past simple to talk about someone else's action in the present.
  • Use 'would rather' + have + past participle for past preferences/regrets.

When unsure, decide whether you're comparing general options (prefer) or expressing a specific/polite preference (would rather / would prefer).

Example

Examples in context

I prefer working remotely to commuting.

I would prefer to schedule the meeting for Monday.

I'd rather you didn't send the file yet.

She would rather have finished the project earlier.

Tip

Common mistakes to avoid

Watch out for these universal errors learners make with prefer/would rather:

  • Mixing gerund and infinitive forms without checking the structure (e.g., 'prefer to doing').
  • Using 'to' after 'would rather' (incorrect: 'would rather to go').
  • Using present tense instead of past after 'would rather' when referring to someone else's action (should use past simple).
  • Confusing 'would prefer' and 'would rather' in terms of politeness and formality — choose based on context.
  • Incorrect comparison connectors: use 'prefer X to Y' or 'would rather A than B', not 'prefer X than Y'.

Focus on the structure that follows each expression; small form errors change meaning or make sentences ungrammatical.

Quiz

Choose the correct sentence:

Hint: Focus on the connector used to compare two options.

Quiz

Complete: She _____ go to the meeting now than later.

Hint: Think about expressions used to state a preference in the present.

Quiz

Choose the correct sentence:

Hint: Check the tense of the verb that follows the subject 'you'.

Key Points

Vocabulary

prefer

verb CEFR B1 //prɪˈfɜːr//

to like one thing more than another

Many employees prefer flexible hours.

GrammarPoint

would rather

expression CEFR B2 //wʊd ˈræðər//

used to state a preference, often for one option over another

I'd rather finish the report before lunch.

GrammarPoint

would prefer

verb phrase CEFR B2 //wʊd prɪˈfɜːr//

a polite way to state a preference, usually followed by to + infinitive

We would prefer to receive the documents by Friday.

GrammarPoint

gerund

grammar_term CEFR B1 //ˈdʒɛrənd//

a verb form ending in -ing that functions as a noun

Prefer hiring experienced candidates.

GrammarPoint

infinitive

grammar_term CEFR B1 //ɪnˈfɪnɪtɪv//

the base form of the verb, often with 'to' (to + verb)

I prefer to meet in the morning.

Expression

rather than

conjunction CEFR B2 //ˈræðər ðæn//

used to indicate preference for one thing over another

We decided to hire a contractor rather than delay the project.