Lesson

If I had known... I wish I had known...

Third conditional

≈ 20 min 8 block(s)

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If I had known... I wish I had known...

This lesson explains how to talk about past regrets and unreal past situations using the third conditional and the phrase 'I wish I had known...'. These structures let you describe things that did not happen and how you would have acted differently.

  • Use the third conditional (If + past perfect, would have + past participle) for unreal past situations and their imagined results.
  • Use 'I wish I had known...' to express regret about something you did not know in the past.
  • Both forms refer to events that cannot be changed—only imagined outcomes.

Table

Third Conditional and 'I wish I had known' — Reference

Structure Use Example
If + past perfect → would have + past participle Talk about a hypothetical past condition and its imagined result If I had known about the delay, I would have postponed the meeting.
I wish + past perfect Express regret about something you did not know or did not do in the past I wish I had known about the delay before scheduling the meeting.
Negative form Use 'had not' or 'hadn't' in the if-clause, 'wouldn't have' in result If she hadn't missed the train, she wouldn't have been late.
Question form (reporting regrets) Use in reported speech to describe past regrets He said he wished he had known earlier.

Tip

Key rule: Form and purpose

Remember the exact forms and when to use them:

  • Third conditional: If + past perfect, would have + past participle → to imagine a different past outcome.
  • 'I wish I had known...' uses wish + past perfect to express regret about not knowing something in the past.
  • Use 'had known' (not 'knew') in these structures because they refer to unreal past situations.

Think: both forms refer to past facts that are not true — use past perfect.

Example

Examples in context

If I had known about the client's budget, I would have suggested a cheaper option.

I wish I had known that the conference was cancelled before I booked my flight.

If we had known the software had a bug, we would have delayed the launch.

She wishes she had known the meeting time earlier so she could have prepared her slides.

Tip

Common mistakes to avoid

Watch out for these universal errors when using third conditional and wish + past perfect:

  • Using 'would' (or 'would have') in the if-clause: incorrect → If I would have known...
  • Using simple past instead of past perfect in the if-clause: incorrect → If I knew..., in this context you need past perfect.
  • Mixing tenses incorrectly in result clause: keep result as would have + past participle.
  • Using 'wish' with present forms for past regrets: avoid 'I wish I knew' when you mean a past regret — use 'I wish I had known.'

Focus on tense sequence: past perfect in the if-clause or after wish; would have in the result.

Quiz

Choose the correct sentence expressing a past regret:

Hint: Think: 'wish' + past perfect for past regrets

Quiz

Complete: If I _____ you were going to be out of the office, I would have postponed the presentation.

Hint: Think about the past perfect form used in if-clauses

Quiz

Which sentence is the correct third conditional form?

Hint: Focus on past perfect in the 'if' clause and 'would have' in the result

Key Points

GrammarPoint

had known

verb phrase CEFR B1 //hæd noʊn//

past perfect form of 'know' used in third conditional and wish constructions

If I had known the deadline, I would have worked faster.

Vocabulary

wish

verb CEFR B1 //wɪʃ//

to want something to be different; used with past perfect to express regret

I wish I had known about the policy before signing.

GrammarPoint

third conditional

grammar term CEFR B2 //θɜːrd kənˈdɪʃənəl//

a conditional form used to talk about hypothetical past situations and their imagined results

If the team had seen the memo, they would have acted sooner.

Vocabulary

regret

noun / verb CEFR B1 //rɪˈɡrɛt//

a feeling of sadness or disappointment about something that happened or was not done

She expressed regret that she had missed the deadline.

GrammarPoint

past perfect

tense CEFR B1 //pæst ˈpɜːrfɪkt//

a past tense (had + past participle) used to show an action completed before another past action

By the time the CEO arrived, we had prepared the report.

GrammarPoint

would have + past participle

verb phrase CEFR B1 //wʊd hæv + pæst ˈpɑːrtɪsɪpl//

structure used in third conditional result clauses to describe imagined past outcomes

If I had checked the figures, I would have noticed the mistake.